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The Child's First-self identification as "I"


par Francky Manegabe Balol'ebwami
ISP/Bukavu - Licencié 2004
  

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CHAPTER ONE : THE CHILD'S DEVELOPMENT.

1.1. The stages of the child's physical growth.

1.1.0. Introduction.

The development of physico-psychological tendencies at the early ages casts lights into the future. Any educator will do well to study these formative years; because he may have an important part in shaping the development of children under his responsibility. Second, because he can only understand a person as he is now by knowing what went on before. Finally, because he will have children whose development was harmed and who will need skillful help and guidance to make them grow up in school matters.

Children's growth has always been looked into in five stages. Kamanyula (1987:3), quoting Debesse, M. (1971:36) says that :

" The period of childhood may be divided

Into five stages :the neo-natal period

(from birth to about one month), infancy

(from one month to two years), middle childhood

(from six to nine years) and preadolescence

(from nine years to puberty) that ushers in adolescence. "

Given that this work is about chidren from the age between six months and six years (seventy-two months), the stages before and after the ones mentioned in this paragraph do not interest us. The development in childhood between the following stages is, then, the interest of this section :

- from six to twelve months,

- from twelve to thirty-six months,

- from thirty-six to seventy-two months.

1.1.1. From six to twelve months (0 : 6-1 :00)

This period is crucial for the growth of a child. At about six months, in fact, as his mind and mouth muscles develop, a child manifests four important characteristics.

The first is the tendency to bite everything. At the beginning of the second term (at the age of four months), children growing up normally manifest traces of the first teeth. Indeed, these make the child suffer even if they are an indication of a positive development. At this time, the child experiences for the first time the pleasure of using his teeth to attain everything. With them, he also tries to bite and destroy whatever he gets in contact with. These teeth also help him defend himself by, for example, using them to tell his caretaker not to carry him. So, this period is said to be the one at which the child puts everything in his mouth. It is, therefore, called " the active oral age " .

The second characteristic is the recognition of other people as different and unique. In fact, the person a child recognises is his mother. For him, mother is someone very different and unique, and who cannot be replaced by any other person. To lose her is like losing an entire life.

At the age of seven or eight months, the child recognises totally his mother, better than by mere instinct. He now knws by experience that she is the woman to whom he is affectionally linked and that no other woman equals her.

Being the only one person to give maximum warmth and tenderness to her child, mother makes him enjoy her affection. She is,for that reason, obliged to stay with her child all the time. If she can happen to abandon him for a while, it creates anguish and distress in him. In this respect, it is clear that a child of this age never wishes to separate with his mother.

First self-image is the third characteristic. Language, pictures, photographs,.....and the mirror may help children form an image of themselves. This image may be positive or negative according to how his neighbourhood considers their personality. Then, children will probably grow up thinking of themselves as beautiful, intelligent, proud, ugly, stupid in case they hear people addressing them repeatedly as « Yolande wa kiana... » ( How beautiful you are, Yolande...),« Ona lu kichwa!» (How big is your head ! ), etc...

The fourth characteristic is that at this age, the child produces his first sounds as his mind and mouth muscles develop. We will fully develop this idea in the second section concerning language development in the child, especially at the babbling stage.

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