3.7 SYNCHRONICITY AND BUSINESS FLOW (PART VII)
When I speak of 'enlightenment' or 'powers', I am
conjecturing, but I am qualified b y experience to speak of flow and of the
obstacles to prosperity and to actualisation of one's potential in the world.
Many authors (such as Maslow or Deepak Chopra) are confusing and contradicting,
because they do not take into account whether a person is 'in survival mode' or
has already met the needs of belonging to society (in particular a professional
place with an income), an issue I have addressed before (Bouchon, 1997d) and
how stressed they are. The picture I present below is a hypothetical one. It
took shape in my experience and my intuition but is only partially confirmed.
In my present understanding (sept. 98) (which will need to be tested and
refined), there are two ways of 'creating reality', summarised in Table
12
Table 12: B-synchronicity, A-creative action The
natural, organismic mechanism and the function of Creation
B-Synchronicity A-Creation
Natura(, organismic mechanism, Function of creation
Needs meeting Dreams meeting
'Pre-scendence":
Prior-to-mind, natural awareness of present !.Ensure
basic survival needs:
survival, safety and basic belonging
(place in the world: social, ecological)
2.Ensure growth needs: basic needs for LifeWork and inner
self-actualisation
Feeling:
Great calm, joie de vivre, love
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'Transcendence': Unified Creator Self
Support expression of self:
!.actualisation of self (outer),
2.self-transcendence into Creator Self
Feeling:
exhilaration, excitement, love
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Simple living Desires, dreams
3.7.1 B-synchronicity: Organismic, natural BodyMindSelf
mechanism
One way is related to the 'down' direction 'B', and is
spontaneous, un-requested 'synchronicity'. I see its function as the basic
underlying role of the most primitive parts of our being: helping us to 'meet
our needs', to survive (including health), be safe, and live efficiently within
our local community (basic belonging). The Bsynchronicity kind is apparent in
my 17-year old gymnastics experience. My mind had nothing to do with it: 'it'
just took over when needed. I have found, over time, that this happens also
with the most dire financial
situations. B-synchronicity is effective
unconsciously, autonomously, and can be impeded by too much disconnection from
Nature, from others (lack of care in particular), b y stress, b y culture and b
y pressures from the social environment. When it is impeded (by ourselves or b
y others on whom we are dependant in one way or another), we do not find
solutions to steer away from abuses of all kinds, physical (including denatured
food), emotional, and mental. Many of our society's problems seem to be of this
nature. This 'pre-scendent' awareness, as I see it, gives us the fundamental
feeling of safety that allows us to not function from fear but from trust,
to
not be constantly 'in survival mode', self-defensive
and manipulative. This natural mechanism seems to be 'acausal' because it is
not directly related to a self that wills, directs, and thinks in sequential
causal terms. It 'just happens' if we are not 'disconnected'. It has meaning
because we do have a self or selves that need to see meaning, as I did in my
17-year old gymnastics experience. My mind had nothing to do with it: 'it' just
took over when needed, but through it, I came to 'know I belong' in Nature, and
to use natural settings to 'resource myself' when the world of people was too
painful. I have found, over time, that the mechanism works also with the most
dire financial situations, to save me 'going to live under the bridges' (where
it is not safe). In some sense, this mechanism is present in anything that
lives or works (machine). Otherwise, when something impedes its functioning
drastically, chaos and decay set in, breakdown (including nervous: depression),
crash, death. This accounts for the view of disease as a
disharmony.
The mechanism has also, I believe, a second function:
to support growth, which for humans means the creative force of the individual,
the purposeful 'life calling' and expression of self. It seems we cannot become
fully operational as Creator Selves without this function in full operation,
which seems to be the case for many 'New Agers'. On its own, it works within a
natural framework of sustainability, of a 'strict need' strategy, of economy of
means, not with surplus abundance, and it does not take into account our
Western habit of wanting to own things, this 'grasping' habit of the ego. One
typical example is related in EE #13 (in Appendix 3.3). This natural,
organismic, or systemic mechanism built into our BodyMindSelf functions
unconsciously, whether we know it or not, better or worse depending on how much
we interfere and disconnect. It functions to allow us a survival place, be it
small, in the world. But we often confuse actual 'need', of a natural kind
(food, shelter, safety, basic growth), with desires linked to civilised living,
social living, and we do not acknowledge that this mechanism is there and works
fairly well actually most of the time. So we feel unsafe, and act from
ego-defensiveness and fear. Small children are still in touch with it and act
from trust. If we can rekindle our awareness of it, we find trust and some form
of 'faith', and we can let go of stress, which in turn allows the natural
organismic mechanism to function better, for both health and outer
needs.
3.7.2 A-creation: Creator-Knower Mind
The second way of 'creating reality' is much more
conscious and dependent on will or desire. It is a means of 'expressing' our
consciousness creatively. Its function is 'dream meeting'. It makes use of the
ability to make up dreams, visions, and 'thought-forms' from our desires, and
only comes with mastery of the tools of the 'BodyMindSelf'. In 'A-creation',
the person feels he or she is influencing (not necessarily 'causing'
directly)
personal outer life circumstances. This is what I call
the 'power of Creation' (or co-creation). In their 'effortless' form, desires
simply have as much reality as a person's 'actual' experience, and
automatically call on the organismic mechanism which actualises them. For the
'creator self', creation can be consciously willed, which is different from
directly 'caused'. The fruits seem to be the result of a purpose rather than a
goal (even when it seems to achieve a goal set in advance) and depends on the
values emphasised: the fruits are often not those directly
envisioned.
Apparently, if combined with natural awareness,
A-creation can give us access to super-normal 'radiant health', to 'perfect
relationships', to successful LifeWork (that includes social recognition of the
value of that work), etc. as expounded b y some New Age teachers who seem to
have developed in both directions. These are the three basic areas where people
have problems, usually in one mainly, that turns out to be the main area of
their life learning. Each teacher focuses on that area, where he or she has
done his discoveries, often assuming that it is 'the' fundamental issue in
human affairs. And so they teach the techniques that worked for them, and talk
about the kinds of results they gained. Taken together, they show an amazing
picture of what is available to humans.
Spiritual traditions interested in creation tell us
there is no theoretical limit to what can be achieved this way... Basically,
the saying : "If you can think it, it can happen" applies, with the nuance of
'co-creation' rather than conventional causation. The limitations come from all
aspects of our thinking. Our beliefs in what is possible or impossible
particularly are extremely limiting. This explains the usefulness to the
techniques of 'reprogramming the unconscious'. That is, provided they are not
used as mere self-manipulation. Here spiritual meaning and psychological
integration appear as important elements. They bring higher values of
connection, love and altruism, and so the choice of sustainable desires and
dreams. The 'size' of our dreams, if ethical, is related to the 'size' of the
'lifework' we feel drawn to do.
The A-creative function does not seem directly related
to sustainability. Widespread and luxurious abundance is possible, as is black
magic. Creation can be selfish, creation can be destructive, just as any other
tool, and only the embracing of humane values will keep the ego-centredness of
our desires in check. Creation can be accessed, apparently, at any level of
sense of 'self'. Ancient peoples used it. Middle Ages peoples used it. American
business wizards use it. This function also works with fears and beliefs and
causes many of our difficult life situations. (see for ex. EE# 14 in Appendix
3.3)
3.7.3 Effective, effortless living and Business
Flow
Time will tell if this is a correct view, but it seems
that the natural, organismic mechanism of the BodyMindSelf is the key to making
envisioned dreams come true. Higher mind can form the visions, but it is the
BodyMindSelf's mechanism that manifests them. Some of the courses I cited say
'it is the unconscious that does it'. This would explain why so many New Age or
'spiritual' people who know about the techniques to 'envision' or 'manifest'
find that the creation does not happen. Without the awareness of the present
situation as it is, the 'creative tension' is twisted: the feedback loops are
misleading because the reality perceived is a mental
construction, not reality as it is. Without enough
self-knowledge, what we 'manifest' is the image of the fears we hold in mind.
For others, the dreams are there, and so it the present, but the 'visions' are
ego-centred, and so the result self-aggrandising' or even hurts others or the
community or destroys the environment. This is the case for much American
business success. Part of my work will consists in determining what the
pre-requisists are for the two types of synchronicity and what their
relationship is, and how various factors influence their
functioning.
Naturally, this distinction between A-creation and
B-synchronicity is an arbitrary, intellectual one. In some cases (as in EE #15
and 16 in Appendix 3.3), it is difficult to label the event. In this instance,
the photocopier I 'received' was something I needed for my work and had worked
at envisioning. Yet nothing had happened for months. Then one day, it came, but
not as I had expected: it was a loan because I was involved in working with
others. In this instance, it did not meet my dream of owning it, and did not
come when I first worked at visualising it. It came as a natural meeting of a
need I had for my purposeful work and so also for my growth as a human being.
So was it an 'A' or a 'B'?
This natural awareness has concrete effects. Harish
Johari explains that in advanced yogic development (7th chakra), the
yogi finds that 'whatever he desires comes true, as does the ability to induce
visions of the past, present and future.' (Johari, 1987, p.79) This is relating
the finding of many people who are developing spiritually or creatively, that a
certain degree of mastery brings series of synchronicities that meet our basic
needs but also our desires and dreams without striving 'effort' on our part,.
In my view Johari's statement covers both what I have called 'B-synchronicity'
and the will-directed 'A-creation'. This is what Deepak Chopra has called
'effortless' living, and which I have called 'Business Flow' in the context of
a professional life.
3.7.4 FlowA and FlowB
Observing people of the land and native people, I
came, similarly, to imagine that there are two kinds of 'flow' states.
Csikszentmihalyi described, for example, a mountain woman who kept goats and
seemed to be in permanent flow, even though her life was very simple and
repetitive. In my framework, such a person would have the primitive 'natural
awareness' but a little-individuated personality and so would be far from a
'Higher Mind'. Her life, as described, or as I see it in other people like her,
was neither highly creative nor oriented toward higher knowledge through
intuition, but she had 'her place in the world', a fundamental trust, and was
neither self-defensive nor manipulative. This I would term 'FlowB', as
distinguished from the kind of flow that higher creativity or spiritual life
can bring, as described in much of transpersonal literature, which I would term
'FlowA'. This distinction has led me to challenging seriously the notion of
'psychological development' as it is usually understood, that is, involving a
necessary step of developing an ego that is dis-eased and disconnected, as we
have it in the West. I discuss this in Appendix. 3.2.
3.7.5 The Possible
It seems to me that the first task of our world is to
re-establish the 'natural awareness' of 'FlowB' more than focusing on
accessing Higher mind and, as Wilber and some others used to advise, take
everyone to fully
fledged 'spiritual awakening'. It is the loss of
'FlowB', in my view, that drives our world mad. An interesting question is to
know whether a little individuated person can be taken from a 'FlowB' to a
'FlowA' developing a left-mind but without a separating ego. Our Western
psychologies basically say 'no', but I am not so sure. If thiss natural
awareness is what I believe it to be, it is something we have as children,
whether we live in the West or in the rest of the world, and do not have to
lose. In other words, the education we give to our children has a fundamental
flaw we can rectify. Other cultures do not seem to go through the psychological
agonies the 'ego' brings to the West. A child who would be educated free of the
limitations of Western perception and thinking could develop a healthier,
authentic personality, knowing who he or she is and wants to do in life
(purpose), with efficient left- and right-minds, and with access to both types
of flow or creative activity, and without the torments of an 'unconscious'
shadow. Such people would be spared the agonies of 'midlife crisis' and
'spiritual emergencies'.
Given the usually well organised ways of Nature, it
would seem rather unlikely that such pains should be 'inscribed in our genes'.
It seems particularly important for us, collectively, to cultivate this kind of
awareness, as it seems to be crucial for people to stop to fight and fear. I
will discuss another crucial aspect of life that we need to cultivate, mutual
validation, in my conclusions.
3.7.6 Survival Drive gone mad
Fear and fight are epitomised in the syndrome of the
'survival drive gone mad'. John Wren Lewis is a professor of physics who turned
to religious studies after a near-death experience that left him, he believes,
spontaneously enlightened. He now devotes himself to finding a way to bring
this liberating experience to others through less drastic experiences. His
state seems similar to the 'plateau' experience Maslow described after nearly
dying of a heart attack, which represents the natural awareness that can be
called upon any time:
"After my rescue from death-by-poisoning in Thailand
in 1983, I felt as if something like a cataract had been removed from my brain,
and for more than ten years now, it has allowed me to experience a wonder and
depth of aliveness in each moment in a way I had never dreamed
possible...
Quite a few of us [Near Death Experiencers], including
many like me with no prior mystical beliefs at all, have found ourselves living
in a state of consciousness where 'egoic' preoccupartions no longer dominate
life, though we have done nothing to discipline ourselves...
The mere fact that such mystical opening can occur
without any spiritual discipline presents a fundamental challenge to the
aristocratic or 'growth' model of enlightenment. And perhaps the most
extraordinary thing is that I don't feel in the least bit 'high' or special.
The state feels so absolutely natural...
It is as if the NDE jerked me out of a collective
nightmarish trance where individuality seemed to mean
separateness and struggle to survive, when it is an
arbitrary convention, like the lines on figures....
If this trance can on occasion be broken simply by
close encounter with death, then it must be something like a malfunction, a
hyperactivity, of the natural protective instincts that are meant to maintain
the game of individuality by avoiding death as long as possible. Post-NDE lives
offer evidence that these
instincts actually function more efficiently without
the 'anxious thought for the morrow' that blocks out awareness of 'eternity
now'. What we need now is to take all ancient traditions about enlightenment as
hypotheses, and do real research into less drastic ways of soothing the
hyperactive survival-drive." (John Wren-Lewis, interview,1992.)
The 'natural protective instincts' corresponds to my
idea of an 'organismic natural mechanism' to ensure survival and growth. In
this passage, notice the word 'growth'. After a couple of conversations with
him, I can point out that he challenges the ideas of spiritual preparation
through a regular practice, and of linear development, not the notion of growth
in the natural world, of which we are a part. I have come to the same
conclusion that this mechanism functions without relationship to thought. If
our thinking stops us being aware of the present, we are unaware of the
mechanism. It is my present understanding that stressing ourselves actually
impedes the very functioning of this mechanism. Most of us respond to thoughts
about past or future with stress, which takes our attention away from the
present experience. The 'eternity now' Wren Lewis speaks of may simply be the
time-less experience of the present (time being a construction generally
attributed to left brain functions). It is therefore plausible that our
habituation to high stress levels would be one way to formulate and explain the
feeling I found in both my experience, and related by Da Free John, of
'something that blocks', within the psyche.
3. 8 Limitations of my work
My framework was developed in the contemporary Western
context and cannot be expected to suit other cultures or times. It does not yet
take into account certain other factors, contains certain assumptions, and is
aimed at practical benefits rather than philosophical explanations about the
nature of mind or reality, benefits for certain kinds of people. It therefore
is not meant to be read as a universal model.
S ynchronicity is a principle of acausal relationship
between human thoughts and events. I have intentionally not reviewed literature
on this concept at this stage because 'synchronicity' is a matter of
psychological meaning (not my focus here) attached to events that have
happened, and I wanted to explore the active phenomenon of creation directly in
my experience. I will review and discuss the literature in the next stage of my
work.
I would like to finish by reproducing two passages.
Both express the uncertainty and magic of experiencing both singular-complexity
and simplicity, The first highlights knowledge about the mind, and the second
an attitude to transpersonal and spiritual experiences in the
second.
"The mind is actually very peculiar and unpredictable.
It manifests many different forms and faces... We might use many different
words to describe the scope of its influence or to discuss its apparent
functioning, but finally, it is very difficult to make mind tangible or to give
it shape and to say solidly, 'This is exactly what mind is '.
"Mind is also very precious. The more deeply we
investigate it, the more we can discover a most comprehensive, universal kind
of truth-knowledge. The Buddha, the Enlightened Ones, the great teachers, and
all those who have attained this knowledge first observed their own mind. They
did not blindly follow someone else's ideas but explored their minds to greater
and greater depth until they discovered that the most valuable possession we
have in this world is the human mind."
(Thartang Tulku, 1976, p.41)
"Steven Hendlin has argued that the best attitude for
the transpersonal psychotherapist is 'don't know.
The 'Don't Know' attitude, based on the realization of
impermanence, calls for a faith in the unknown, a faith in... the 'wisdom of
insecurity'... Paradox is another form of '"don 't know"....Our task is to
understand that the one who questions is not different from the 'who knows?'
question itself. Our lives are the substance and answer to this question. But I
might be wrong. You never know for sure. (Hendlin, 1984, p.12)" (cited in
Rowan, 1993, p. 227).
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